If you know what I know, you’d fuck the girl from the above scenario so well that she would become addicted to you like a drug. This beautiful woman would want you to fulfill all her wildest fantasies – repeatedly.
In the last several years, every girl I’ve fucked has become obsessed with me. I’ve had women beg me to visit them thousands of miles away. Others, who I only knew for a single night, have made up excuses to travel to my city, so they could get another “hit”.
But I wasn’t always good in bed. In fact, I used to be so bad that women categorized me as nothing more than a one-night-stand.
I made a lot of mistakes in the bedroom. Through years of trial-and-error, I learned from those mistakes and went from giving the sexual performance of a donkey, to that of a stallion.
With what you’re about to learn, you can skip much of the awkward learning phase I had to go through – and quickly become a source of irresistible pleasure to every woman you sleep with.
Use the four keys to killer sex I’m about to share with you to learn how to fuck a girl so well she’ll beg for more.
Key 1: Dominate Her
In his book, Why Women Have Sex, Evolutionary psychologist David Buss writes, “Sexual submission is a popular sexual fantasy among women. A study of 141 married women discovered that the fantasy ‘I imagine that I am being overpowered and forced to surrender’ was the second most common fantasy out of the list of fifteen.”
For many women, the idea of being desirable to a man is in itself is a turn-on. For women, one of the greatest sexual experiences imaginable is that of being so attractive to a man that he can’t help but dominate her.
This fantasy, counterintuitively, is about power and control. The woman is powerful because her appeal is so overwhelming to a man that he can no longer control himself, he must ravish her.
I have to make very clear that you have to be careful when interpreting this. Obviously, women don’t want to be forced to have sex against their will. But, the idea of being so appealing to man that he becomes overwhelmed with desire is a huge turn-on.
If a woman is giving you any form of resistance or says no, you need to stop what you’re doing.
However, the more you can make a woman feel that you are overwhelmed with a deep-seated desire to dominate her, the better.
What does this look like? When making out with a girl, you might want to slam her against the wall (obviously gently enough that it doesn’t actually hurt her).
Or, if you’re on the couch with a girl, and things start to get heated, you can pick her up, carry her to the bed, and throw her on the bed before getting on top of her.
Dominance generally means taking the lead and asserting yourself. You want to take on the spirit of being a wild animal who’s completely lost in the act. Essentially, you are possessed by your desire to have this woman.
(I have to say – because someone could misinterpret the nuance of this- during all of this, you still need to be aware if she gives any sign of hesitance or disinterest, and if she does, stop what you’re doing.)
Verbal Dominance
Dominance can be verbal, too. Just before sex is the best time to compliment a girl on her appearance. This is because a. It makes her feel desirable which is a turn-on. and b. Sex is a vulnerable act, and many women have insecurities about their appearance.
By complimenting her on how good she looks as the layers of clothes come off, you can help her feel sexy. You can compliment her however you like, call her sexy, beautiful, etc. What matters is that you get across the idea that she is irresistibly attractive and desirable.
You can also tell her what to do. Make commands like:
“I want you to go down on me.”
“Close your eyes.”
And “That’s perfect, keep doing that.”
Ushering commands can help her fulfill her submissive fantasies by giving her the feeling that she is under your control.
Not all women like to be dominated. Some are more neutral, and some prefer to be dominant themselves. Make sure to pay attention to how she responds to your dominant behavior, if it doesn’t seem to get her excited or to turn her on, you may want to use less dominance.
Every woman is different, and your ability to respond to a particular girl’s desires is an important aspect of fucking a girl well (we’ll dive deeper into this concept soon.)
Key 2: Tease Her
When learning how to fuck a girl well, teasing is powerful because it acts as a pattern interrupt. Usually, when a guy starts making out with a girl, he does everything he can to escalate towards sex. He pushes, further and further.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with that. But, when a guy teases a girl by taking a step back or withdrawing a bit, it will take the girl off guard.
She thought she was about to experience pleasure, and you’ve just taken that away from her.
She’ll be desperate to get the good feeling she lost back, and this will make her start to sexually chase you.
Here are a few examples of how you can use teasing in the bedroom:
You can kiss her down her stomach, and just as she thinks you’re going to go there, go back upwards.
If you’re fingering her, just as she’s getting extremely aroused, you can stop and go back to just making out.
While making out, you can withdraw to make her have to come to you to reinitiate.
Teasing may seem to contradict being dominant. But they actually compliment each other by accentuating each other.
Dominance is hot, teasing is cold. After you withdraw by teasing, using dominance again will have double the effect (and vice versa).
Teasing makes you a challenge, it makes her feel like she has to work for you.
With it, you can make her doubt whether you’re going to fuck her, and then ravish her. The unpredictability of the experience will make it all the more seductive to her.
Key 3: Escalate Gradually
Men are often so focused on their end goal of sex, that they fail to enjoy the process leading up to it. For women, sex is only as good as the foreplay that came before.
She should already be on the brink of orgasm when you enter her. Afterwards, anything you do will bring her over the edge – not just once or twice, but many times.
There’s no one right way to do foreplay, but I almost always use both my fingers and my tongue.
Fingering
It’s all about tempo. Start slowly and gently with your fingers, and as she gets wetter, intensify the stimulation. Once she’s lost in her arousal, you can enter her with one or two fingers. Again, start slowly, and intensify the pace.
This is a great place to use some teasing. You can intentionally reduce the stimulation or even remove it completely to make her want you that much more.
Cunnilingus
Don’t worry about the specific techniques you use with your tongue. Instead, focus on variety. Try different things: the tip of your tongue versus the top of it, an up and down motion versus side-to-side, gentle stimulation versus more forceful.
Notice how she responds to each variation. If she seems to particularly like something (you should be able to tell), double down on that.
In general, you want to use variety. But once you think she’s close to orgasm, you want to continuously use one type of stimulation to get her over the edge.
You can tell she’s close by the fact that she’ll get extremely wet, her muscles will start to stiffen, and she will seem to start to lose control of herself. It’s not an exact science, you’ll have to develop your awareness of this through practice, but your intuition will usually be right.
Key 4 Communicate
You can use dirty talk during sex if you want. It can be fun, but it’s certainly not necessary for mind-blowing sex.
Talking after sex, though, is essential.
Candidly discussing sex with a girl will help make her more comfortable with you. Many women have insecurities about sex, having a real conversation with you about it can help her let go of those insecurities when she’s with you.
Furthermore, discussing sex can help you understand what she likes so that you can give her more of it.
When talking about sex, it’s imperative that you don’t sound insecure. Questions like, “Did you like that?” or, “Was that good for you?” are counterproductive because they make you sound unsure of yourself.
Sounding insecure is in itself a turn-off. Plus, you’re not going to get honest answers to those questions because she’s not going to want to hurt your feelings.
Frame questions positively. Instead of asking, “Did you like that?” Ask, “What did you like most about that?” Instead of asking, “Did you orgasm?” ask, “What was the strongest orgasm you ever had, and what caused it?”
Ask about what she likes, what she wants more of, and definitely ask her what sexual fantasies she has. You may not be able to help her live out her exact fantasy, but you might be able to do something similar.
For example, if the theme of her fantasy is being dominated, you can use that knowledge as an indication that you should use more dominance. If her fantasy involves being dominant, you could give her an opportunity to live that fantasy out, too.
Get creative with how you discuss sex. The above should give you some starting points, but the conversation should be organic overall, not completely scripted.
Conclusion- How To Fuck A Girl So Well She’ll Beg For More
Using the four keys to mind-blowing sex you just learned, you’ll be able to give any woman an unforgettable experience.
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