Last I checked, this fear of talking to a hot woman was somewhere after the fear of death and the fear of being launched into outer space wearing nothing but a strap-on sex toy.
But even if you learn how to talk to girls, you’re still going to find the occasional hot chick that just throws you for a loop.
And if anything distracts you, it’s going to be a girl with a huge rack.
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That’s right – boobs.
Knockers.
Hashtag: #BlouseBunnies.
And I sure do like the way they hop…
Yes, I’m a breast man, so I know how cleavage can hypnotize. In fact, they will overwhelm you with nervous excitement.
With that in mind, I want to reveal 3 secrets about talking to women with big breasts that will save you from a painful crash and burn.
These tips aren’t just for the girls with ample bosoms – it could be any trait that just wows you sexually and makes it hard to concentrate on what she’s saying.
Which actually leads us to tip #1: You have to behave like it’s no big deal.
And yes, that pun was intended.
The fact is that most guys are way too obvious. They can’t keep their eyes off her prized assets.
And she’s used to it, too. So you have to make sure you don’t approach with an air of pervy lust, or you’re done before you start.
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If you get all warm and rubbery talking to a girl with a fantastic balcony – well, you’re going to probably immediately give her too much credit.
You’ll find yourself thinking about proposing to her before she’s won YOU over with all the other stuff that makes a great girlfriend.
Scientists call this the Halo Effect – where a strong attractive physical quality makes you give that person way too much credit. And ta-tas will blind you before you can make a proper decision.
You have to be completely unaffected by her funbags. It’s gotta be as “so what” as painted toenails to you.
Let me give you 2 ways to change how you think about her:
– Remember she poops, too.
Every time I bring this one up with my classes or bootcamps, I always got a bunch of guys squirming in their chairs. I don’t know any guy that enjoys the image of a hot chick on the Throne pushing one out.
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But you know what?
They do.
In fact, what most guys tend to do is over-idealize women up front. They immediately assume that because she’s beautiful, that she has no negative qualities.
They’re intimidated from the first moment because they started up their “wild eyed dreamer” mode instead of their “calm, rational thinking” mode.
It’s that damn Halo Effect again.
As a result, these guys become completely awestruck, and start acting like a goofball teenager.
An idiot…
A nice guy.
And in case you weren’t aware: Nice guy = not getting laid guy.
I just want to be clear about that.
So the next time you catch yourself putting her up on a pedestal too quickly, take a second to imagine her on the porcelain, panties around her ankles, maybe even grunting a bit.
It’s not attractive, but it will help ground you so you don’t start drooling.
– No matter how hot she is, there’s a guy somewhere that’s sick of her sh*t.
This tip goes right along with the whole poop visualization I gave you.
When you first meet a girl, you think she can do no wrong. She’s perfect in your eyes.
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Even if you’re a “butt guy” – a splendid set of knockers isn’t going to stop you from wanting to make her yours, right?
But the reality is that every girl has behaviors that would drive you friggin nuts after a while of dating her.
Hey, so do guys.
My point is that you will probably jump in headfirst based on her hot qualities. You’ll actually resist any attempt from your friends or family to talk some sense into you if they see some obnoxious red flags show up.
You won’t want to see those warning signs, because – gosh, in about 30 seconds all you’ll see are those plump delicious melons.
Remember, you don’t need to worry about feeling LESS attracted to a girl.
You need to worry about feeling out of control around her. That’s far more dangerous.
And really, the only way you’re going to pull this off is to…
Tip# 2: Practice with a simulator.
One of the most effective things you can do to talk to a girl with a phenomenal set of jugs is to make it “no big deal.”
One of my favorite tips for guys to do this is to create a distracting situation for him to practice without risking anything.
Something I call a “simulator.”
What you do is get a Playboy centerfold, or just print out a pinup of a hot naked girl.
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Tape it up to the wall at about eye level. Make sure it’s an image where she’s making eye contact with you.
The more distracting her body is to you, the better.
Then you just practice walking up and opening a conversation with her. Use your best “line” or routine.
Walk up multiple times, always keeping the eyes from going south. If you slip up, walk away, clear your head, and try again.
(Just be sure to take it down before you invite her back to your place…)
The key here is not to let your eyes wander down to her cha-chas. Or anywhere else for that matter.
You want to look as if you locked eyes with her and can’t see anything else.
The better you can do this, the better chance you’ll have of getting on her radar as a “yes” instead of a “hell no.”
Keep those eyes under control.
The best way to do that is to always keep her eyes and her face as your primary focus.
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If you can make her boobs a low priority, and dial up your curiosity about who she is as a person – you’ll have no problem getting a conversation going that will warm her up to you.
#3: Sneak a peek…
Look, the fact is that you’re going to go insane if you can’t check out her gorgeous set of mammaries. It will literally make you freak out if you DON’T look.
So what you have to do is time your peek for when you’ve already got the conversation going. There will come a time when she laughs and closes her eyes, or looks away, or down at her phone…
And when she does, you can drink in the vista of jubblies before you. Go ahead, you earned it.
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Take a second to imagine yourself pressed between them. Then look away before she can catch you staring when she looks back at you.
What you’re doing is glimpsing instead of leering at her like a sex-starved fiend.
Just focus your efforts on not checking out her boobs for about the first minute or so of talking to her. That’s all you gotta do, man!
Remember that if she gives you an initial cold-shoulder, it has nothing to do with you. Women with big tits are ogled all the time, and she’s used to every man’s interest in her being just one thing – sexual.
She’s just built up an instinctive defense mechanism over the years.
She has had to handle the lusty stares from men who were clueless idiots, as well as the jealous anger of other girls who see her as a huge threat. (Which she is, by the way.)
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Be the guy who wants to get into her brain as much as her bra and you’ll stand a real chance at making her yours.
And that leads us to the last tip…
#4: Know what to say to win her
Look, if you don’t have any idea of what you’re going to say to her before you walk up, it’s almost guaranteed that you’ll make one of these hideous errors:
– You’ll talk yourself out of it completely.
And don’t think you’re “off the hook” either. If you fail to approach, it’s still a failure.
You’ll never get to meet her, and it’s an opportunity you messed up.
In the words of Wayne Gretzky – I miss every shot I don’t take.
Or you’ll make this error:
– You’ll go in without a clue, and she’ll just brush you right off like lint on her sweater.
Most guys think there’s something noble about approaching and talking to a girl without a plan. As if it’s fake or deceptive to have a good idea of what you’re going to say in advance.
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Or they feel it’s “wrong” to use tried and true conversation starters that get you talking with her in the first place.
The simple fact is that the one thing that will make you a success with women in general is to have a rock solid strategy for talking to her.
And not just talking to her, but knowing what to say that will flick her interest switch ON in her head.
NOTHING else will increase the number of women you sleep with more.
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